This was so gorgeously written I am at a loss for words!!!! All I want to add is that her entire look right now is endlessly appropriative of Black culture and thus I don’t think she (or her stans) even deserves any compassionate warning/admission of understanding about the optics of a cis man discussing a woman’s appearance (although I honestly personally resent the narrative that the aesthetics of any public figures whose entire brand/livelihood and influence centers their superficial image aren’t fair game for non-hateful discussion en masse— including and especially by queer people). What a beautiful piece of writing. Thank you for sharing ❤️❤️❤️